3 Steps to a Positive Outcome

How to get a positive outcome from any situation

I want to be able find a solution to every single unpleasant situation I encounter and hence turn it into a success of some kind.

This is my 3 step strategy for achieving this. It goes :

1 : Don't turn things in to problems anymore.

Life is challenging enough as it is, there is no need to create problems by mentally applying "should" and "shouldn't" tags to things, people and situations.

Instead I suggest accepting things the way they are. Then, with focus, concentration, belief, and some patience, rearrange them into a new order that pleases you. And as you grow what is important for you will change, so you can keep rearranging things accordingly.

2 : Believe in your own power to create.

You have the power to create your own reality to the extent that you believe and trust that you do. To be more accurate we all have the power to create our own realities, so if an experience is shared then it is limited by the beliefs of those who share it. This is important for working in situations involving several people.

Bear in mind that you are always mentally suggesting things to those around you, so make sure you believe that others are willing to cooperate and find solutions. If you hold positive pictures of outcomes based on win-win cooperation, you will be making life a lot easier for yourself and everyone involved.

3 : Trust and take action.

Once you are sure that you are committed to finding a positive outcome and you believe that it is possible, it is time to take action. Make sure that you have made that commitment and that your beliefs are strongly established, otherwise you might doubt and fall into negativity again.

Then go for it, trust your beliefs in the same way you trust the fact that you know how to walk when you set out to cross the room (unless you are disabled - of course) and take action in the direction which you have decided is appropriate.